Accessing Social Support

Asking for and accepting help is often the biggest barrier to wellness for many moms. Here in the US, our dominant cultural narrative tells us that to be strong, capable mothers, we need to be able to handle it all independently. It can be so very hard to admit we need help and to then take the steps necessary to get help. Knowing what you need and finding a person to ask for help are crucial for the overwhelmed mom. We will help you figure out what kind of help you need, identify social support resources, and offer real-life tips for how to ask for support.

My Postpartum Shift

Dear Friend,

A few months after my first was born, I finally made it out to my first “mom” gathering. I don’t know why it took me so long to do it; perhaps I was scared, nervous, or simply too overwhelmed to even make it happen. I went to an evening La Leche League meeting, hoping to find some advice and support for my fussy nurser. At the meeting, I met you.

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